Understanding the system

The process, in plain English.

What each stage actually means. What you can expect. What you are entitled to ask for, see, and challenge.

If you only do one thing today

Get a solicitor on your side.

In care proceedings, legal aid for parents is free and non-means-tested. You should not face this without representation. Our support page lists trusted starting points.

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If a child is in immediate danger, call 999. For non-emergency concerns, call the NSPCC on 0808 800 5000 or the Samaritans on 116 123.

You Are Not Alone

A calm starting point, in a process that rarely feels calm.

We are an independent voice for families in the child protection system in England and Wales. This site offers plain-English explanations, signposting to qualified support, and a campaign for a more open, accountable system.

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Occasional updates — campaign news, new explainers, and stories we are asked to share. No noise, no spam.

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This site is not legal advice. The information here is general and should not replace advice from a qualified solicitor or advocate. If you are facing a hearing or assessment, please seek specialist legal help — for parents in care proceedings in England and Wales, legal aid is free and non-means-tested.
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