Our campaign

A campaign for a more open child protection system.

Supporting families is half of why this site exists. The other half is a belief that the system itself needs to be far more open than it is.

Decisions that separate children from their parents are among the most serious any state can make — yet in England and Wales they are made largely behind closed doors.

Family court hearings are usually held in private. Many judgments are never published. Families frequently come away without ever fully understanding why the most important decision of their lives was reached.

This matters all the more given the scale of the system.

The scale
£15.5bn
Spent by councils on children's social care in England, 2024–25.

Children's social care in England is now an enormous undertaking. Local authorities sit at the centre of it — they assess families, bring cases to court, commission the placements children are moved into, and hold the budgets that fund the wider ecosystem of services around them. When the same body holds so many roles at once, fairness depends on real transparency and genuine independent scrutiny.

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What we believe

We want to be clear about something important: children are sometimes at genuine risk, and the people working in this field often face heartbreaking, impossible decisions. We do not believe every intervention is wrong, and we do not stand against child protection.

We stand for a system that is open enough to be trusted — one in which families understand what is happening to them, can challenge decisions that are wrong, and are treated with dignity throughout.

What we are asking for

  • More published, anonymised family court judgments — so that decisions are visible and can be reasoned about by the public who fund them.
  • Independent scrutiny of local authority decision-making, separate from the local authorities themselves.
  • A statutory right to clear, plain-English information for every parent at the moment they enter the system.
  • Better data on outcomes for children removed from their birth families — long-term, honest, and published.
  • Robust support for kinship carers — the family members who step forward, often overnight, and are then frequently forgotten by the system.
Stand with us

If this rings true to you, we'd be glad to hear from you.

Journalists, researchers, professionals working in the system, and families — all welcome. The campaign grows by people speaking honestly.

Get in touch

If a child is in immediate danger, call 999. For non-emergency concerns, call the NSPCC on 0808 800 5000 or the Samaritans on 116 123.

You Are Not Alone

A calm starting point, in a process that rarely feels calm.

We are an independent voice for families in the child protection system in England and Wales. This site offers plain-English explanations, signposting to qualified support, and a campaign for a more open, accountable system.

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This site is not legal advice. The information here is general and should not replace advice from a qualified solicitor or advocate. If you are facing a hearing or assessment, please seek specialist legal help — for parents in care proceedings in England and Wales, legal aid is free and non-means-tested.
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