Journal

Writing about the system, calmly.

Occasional pieces — on the law, on the numbers, on what families tell us. We write slowly and we try not to shout.

Campaign
22 January 2026

What the £15.5 billion really tells us

Children's social care in England spent £15.5 billion in 2024-25. That number deserves to be looked at clearly — not to attack the people doing impossible work, but to ask whether the system around them is doing what we hope it is.

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Our approach
8 January 2026

Why we publish in plain English

Most parents we hear from say the same thing. Nobody explained what was happening to them. Plain English is not a nice-to-have. It is the difference between feeling like a participant and feeling like a number.

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Transparency
14 December 2025

Transparency and trust — the case for more open courts

The Transparency Pilot has opened a window into the family courts. We look at what is changing, what isn't, and what families tell us they still need.

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You Are Not Alone

A calm starting point, in a process that rarely feels calm.

We are an independent voice for families in the child protection system in England and Wales. This site offers plain-English explanations, signposting to qualified support, and a campaign for a more open, accountable system.

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